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Sep 18Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

In his amazing book, “I’m Proud of You: My Friendship with Fred Rogers,” Tim Madigan tells of Mister Rogers explaining how we can ask the people in our lives who die to intercede for us because they are now seated much closer to God.

With that in mind, MAA, I will often pray not just for Michael but, to Michael.

And, to stick with the reference, after reading this life-affirming post/eulogy, I must add: I’m proud of you, my friend.

Thank you… 🙏 💕 🙏

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Sep 18Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

Mickey, this is beautiful.... I will have to remember this..... how we can ask the people in our lives who die to intercede for us because they are now seated much closer to God. 😘💗

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Sep 18Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

Thank you, Stella (and fancy meeting you here)! I'm so pleased this resonated and I'm thrilled to know it will influence your prayer life. 🙏 💕 🙏

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Sep 18Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

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Dear Margaret, I can't help but believe that Michael will be doing his part from the other side, in the beautiful way only he can. We need angels as much as, or more, than we need human assistance right now on this Earth.

All blessings to you both. xoxo M

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Sep 18Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

Thank you, Margaret, for sharing all of this... I feel I got a sense of being there, of the timelessness of it... the deeper love interwoven with the loss... the eternal dance of grief and hope... Many blessings.

And I love the fingerprint yin-yang pendant. So special.

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So much incredible beauty in so much poignant sadness.

The fullness of your lives, the out-pouring of creative expression from you both and your keeping track of Michael's wise words - almost as if you knew you'd need them to honor him - says so much about your deep love and love-story.

Bigger than each of you, bigger than both of you. Of course you'd share it. ❤️ Thank you for Margaret, and Michael.

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Sep 18Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

I read this slowly and listened to the mosquito's lament, such a beautiful accompaniment! I loved reading all the loving things that others sent to you. And I feel Michael's wisdom seeping into my soul with his profound and humble sayings. Honored that you've shared this personal journey with me. And I'll be there for the road ahead, wherever it goes next.

Oh and the photo of you and your best friend warmed my heart. So much love in that hug!

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Sep 18Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

"Tomorrow isn't there.

Thank you for his reminder.

fly

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You never said I'm leaving

You never said goodbye

You were gone before I knew it,

And only God knew why.

~

A million times I needed you,

A million times I cried

If love alone could have saved you,

You never would have died

~

In life I loved you dearly

In death I love you still.

In my heart you hold a place,

That no one could ever fill.

~

It broke my heart to lose you,

But you didn't go alone

For part of me went with you,

The day God took you home.

~

🙏 My sincerest condolences to you, Margaret Anna Alice, on the loss of your beloved irreplaceable Michael. 🙏

💕

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Sep 18Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

Oh, MAA. Thank you for courageously opening your heart to share your fond memories of your beloved Michael, that we may find medicine in his words ✨️💓 I know so many grieving people are taking comfort in your posts lately. You are not alone, and you -- and your love for Michael, and his love for you -- are such a gift to this world. 🥹

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Sep 18Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

Dear, Precious Margaret Anna: You have such an exquisite way with words. Wishing you peace forever. ❤️

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Sep 19Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

Beautiful eulogy. My heart goes out to you. And hugs!

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Sep 19Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

Such a moving account of Michael’s service.

As you glue the shattered bits of yourself back together, let your friends support you until you are finally able to trust the glue to hold. That’s always been my picture of how grieving works.

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Sep 18Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

Sending you so much love, from Canada. 😘💗

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Sep 20Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

So beautiful. Just so beautiful. xo xo xo

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Sep 20Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

I love reading everything you write. There are many kinds of beautiful lives, and the one you lived together resonates with me as one of the best. Michael reminds me of John O’Donohue, the author of On Beauty. There is a deep, Celtic, other-worldly knowing in their eyes. Truly he is your Anam Cara, and soul friends never really die. When I think of you, two songs run through my mind: Into The West by Annie Lennox, and Across The Universe by The Beatles. My prayer for you is that the waves of grief that are currently crashing onto the shore, become, with time, gentle lapping of deep joy and gratitude that he chose you.

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Sep 20Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

MAA - thank you for sharing this tribute to your beloved Michael. Praying your loving cherished memories of him will sustain you.

Keeping you in thought and prayer, dear friend 😘❤️🙏🙏🙏

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Sep 19Liked by Margaret Anna Alice

Thank you for such a wonderful posting, a rare and vital moment, reminding me there are three in every relationship -- him, her, and the space in-between -- and when both commit themselves to keeping the space in-between 'clear', then wonders of beauty arise, as your eulogy recounts.

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